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Can you get paid to care for a parent?

Sometimes. These are the official programs to ask about, and the rules vary by state.

Last checked October 16, 2026

Medicaid programs

  • If your parent already gets Medicaid, their state may let a family member or friend become a paid caregiver. Many states call this a consumer-directed personal assistance program. Requirements and pay vary by state. (USA.gov: Disability and caregiver help)
  • In Medicaid's self-directed services, the person getting care can have the authority to recruit, hire, train and supervise their own workers. (Medicaid.gov: Self-directed services)

Other routes USA.gov lists

  • Long-term care insurance: some policies let family members get paid as caregivers. Ask the insurance agent for written confirmation of benefits.
  • Paid family leave: some states have programs that pay you to care for a family member. Rules vary by state.
  • For veterans: VA programs such as Veteran-Directed Home and Community Based Services and the Aid and Attendance benefit.

(USA.gov: Disability and caregiver help)

If your parent is a veteran

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